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Sh#t Your Ego Says

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  Top 5 Lesson learned from book -Sh#t Your Ego Says: 1)Sometimes what we need is different from what we want. The Ego has desires but those desires are not always in our best interest. When we listen closely, failure can open us to the intuition of the Higher Self. 2)We can’t do everything alone. Failure is a reminder that life is a collaborative effort. Success is not the result of selfish action, but rather the mutual outcome of people working together toward a shared goal. 3)There might be a better way. Failure does not always mean no. Sometimes it just means not this way. When the door it locked, don’t force it open. Simply look for another door. 4)Failure is a better teacher than success. We don’t learn much from success. But failure is helpful because it puts us in a state of reflection, and reflection is a form of meditation. When we meditate on failure we emerge smarter and stronger. 5)Character is forged in fire. Success is not the result of what we do; it is the result o...

The 48 Laws of Power

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The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene Law 1: Never outshine the master Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power When it comes to power, outshining the master is perhaps the worst mistake of all. Never take your position for granted and never let any favors you receive go to your head. Law 2: Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies But hire a former enemy and he will be more loyal than a friend, because he has more to prove. In fact, you have more to fear from friends than from enemies. If you have no enemies, find a way to make them Since honesty rarely strengthens friendship, you may never know how a friend truly feels. Friends will say that they love your poetry, adore your music, envy your taste in clothes— maybe they mean it, often they do not. The key to power, then, is the ability to judge who is best able to further your interests in all situations. Keep friends for friendship, but work with the skilled ...

BUILT TO SERVE

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Top 12 lesson learned from book - BUILT TO SERVE: 1. Humans are built to serve. Some people are built to serve the world. Others want to serve the 25 closest people to them. But in either case, humans are built to serve. 2. Everybody has Michael Jordan-level talent... at something. 3. All the great things in your life are connected. Your job is to find what the connection is. 4. Money is just a tool. And it's a very important one. 5. Money is important Even if you're a charity, money is important. It's just not number one. But it's also not number one hundred. Money should be in your top five priorities. 6. Your spouse is the family you choose, and it's one of the most important decisions you'll ever make. 7. The greater your unhappiness, the greater your actions will need to be. 8. You need to be courageous enough to make the change. Knowing alone is not enough. Action is required. 9. You've been running your entire life with your hands tied behind your bac...

The Art of Thinking Clearly

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Top 15 Lessons learned of the book "The Art of Thinking Clearly" 1. Confirmation bias is the mother of all misconceptions. It is a tendency to interpret new information so that it becomes compatible with our existing theories. 2. Never underestimate the hard work and lower probability of success, just because we are shown more successful people than many more actual failures. 3. Calamity of Conformity If you ever find yourself in a tight unanimous group, you must speak your mind, even if your team does not like it, and even if it means risking expulsion from the warm nest. 4. Induction People get inducted into a decision based on history without thinking logically. 5. Loss Aversion The fear of losing something motivates people more than the prospect of gaining something of equal value. 6. Compounding When it comes to compounding, don’t trust your intuition - you have no idea how powerful it is. 7. It is not what you say, but how you say, that's important. 99% Fat Free pro...

The Dip

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Top 10 Lessons learned From book-"The Dip" 1. Be the Best Anyone who is going to hire you, buy from you, or do what you want them to do is going to wonder if  you’re the BEST  choice. BEST: Best for them, right now, based on what they believe and what they know THE WORLD: Their world, the world they have access to 2 . Quitting Is Not Failure If you are not going to be the best, then you should just QUIT. Quitting, in some scenarios, is actually essential for freeing up resources to get through the dips that matter. This means you only have two options in life: Quit or be Exceptional. To become the best, you must understand these three curves: 3. The Cul De Sac: This first curve is where you work and work and work… but nothing changes. It doesn’t get a lot better; it doesn’t get a lot worse… it just is what it is. Whenever you find one of these... ...you need to get off it fast. The opportunity cost of investing your life in something that’s not going to get better is just too...

Mind Over Money

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Top 10 Lessons learned From the Book “Mind Over Money” 1. Rationality Even if you think you’re generally good at thinking and choosing rationally, that all falls apart when it comes to budgeting and spending. 2. Be patient Don’t get discouraged though, because these beliefs and habits have taken you years to develop, which means that it will take some time to fix them. 3. Childhood As a child, you were financially socialized just by the adults around you, which built the complicated connections you have with money today. 4. Strong Beliefs Your beliefs about money are strong because you began developing them when you were really young. Research shows that children at least as young as six already know about the importance of money! 5. Social Status Research confirms that young people also understand how money affects social status. 6. You struggle NOT because you’re a terrible person. It’s hard because nobody’s taught you the right way to manage your finances. 7. Your motivation at work...